Unix datagram socket source: batch reads with recvmmsg to cut syscall overhead

[Aboussejra]

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Use Cases

We ingest EVE JSON over a unix datagram socket at high message rates
(hundreds of thousands of small messages per second).

The source cannot keep up. Profiling points at per-message overhead rather than
decoding or downstream work: the current listen() loop does one recv_from
syscall per datagram, and calls out.send_batch() once per datagram as well. At
this message size, syscall and channel-send overhead dominate the actual work and we cannot drain our load.

Proposal

Read many datagrams per wakeup with recvmmsg(2), and push the decoded events
downstream as a single batch:

• Preallocate N buffers of max_length and call recvmmsg.
• Decode each returned message, collect the events into one Vec<Event>, and
  issue a single send_batch per recvmmsg call.

New option on the unix datagram socket source, defaulting to 1 so existing
behaviour is unchanged:

sources:
  suricata:
    type: socket
    mode: unix_datagram
    path: /path/to_/socket
    recvmmsg_buffers: 64   # messages per recvmmsg call, default 1

Memory held per socket is recvmmsg_buffers * max_length, so the option is a
direct throughput/memory trade-off the operator controls.

Happy to open the PR — we have a working implementation.