lib,src: updates for BoringSSL #6446

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 38s
aarch64-linux: Cache V8 build	23s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	30m 17s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	48m 12s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	30m 29s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.6.1	26m 40s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.5.5	26m 49s
aarch64-linux: with shared boringssl-0.20260413.0	26m 35s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-4.0.0	26m 28s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-1.1.1w	27m 16s
aarch64-linux: with shared openssl-3.0.19	26m 38s
	4h 31m 25s

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